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| How to deal with friends When our friends are complaining or whiny, it is easy for us to join in. But resist the urge! Some friends can be detrimental to your romantic relationship. Here are some tips to keep your relationship going strong, despite those “friendships”. If your friend is griping about her man, don’t say “I know how you feel.” It is disrespectful to your man. Instead, next time she says something belittling, try ignoring the comment, or say “oh really?” and then change the subject. If your sweetie’s friends are not the type you like to hang out with, be polite to make your man proud of you. Even though there might be other things you want to do, just think of what a short time it is out of your whole life and of how content it makes your love. If however, the friend(s) are rude, crass, or vulgar; you have no obligation to be around. When they learn how to act around a lady, then they will be graced with your company. If your friends don’t like your man, ask them why not and listen to the answer. If it is because of something that your man does that is very disrespectful to you or anyone else, dump him immediately. But if it is because he is a chess geek, dump the friends. God designed the man of your dreams for you, not them. Before you ex-communicate any friends, talk to them about what is bothering you about them and give them a chance to fix it. It’s only fair. If they don’t decide you are worth it, it is their loss and you will find new friends that better suit you. Home | Back |